The word mansplaining seems to be everywhere these days from pop culture to news reporting. If you don’t already know what it is, it’s the process of a male explaining something to another person (usually female) in such a way that is perceived to be condescending or patronizing. Oftentimes the speaker is explaining a simple situation that is already easily understood by the majority of people.
Some believe that mansplaining, if left unchecked, leads to gaslighting, and it’s easy to understand why that might be.
SIDE NOTE 1: Gaslighting is a form of psychological abuse where the abuser manipulates the victim into questioning the victim’s recollections, memories, perceptions, and sanity. The term was derived from the play “Gas Light” by British dramatist Patric Hamilton (17 March 1904 – 23 September 1962).
SIDE NOTE 2: In 1940, the movie “Gas Light” starring Anton Walbrook and Diana Wynyard hit the theaters. The movie was based on the 1938 play “Gas Light” by British dramatist Patrick Hamilton (17 March 1904 – 23 September 1962).
SIDE NOTE 3: In 1944, the movie “Gas Light” starring Ingrid Bergman and Charles Boyer hit the theaters. The movie was based on the same 1938 play “Gas Light” by British dramatist Patrick Hamilton (17 March 1904 – 23 September 1962).
SIDE NOTE 4: MGM bought the remake rights to “Gas Light” with a caveat that demanded all existing prints of the 1940 movie version be destroyed
SIDE NOTE 5: The play was known as “Angel Street” in the United States.
On April 13, 2008 author Rebecca Solnit wrote an OpEd column for the Los Angeles Times wherein she outlined what mansplaining was and how negative it was towards those who were made to endure it. While the author didn’t use the term mansplaining per se in her OpEd piece, the sense of the word was at the heart of her writing.
By 2010, the word mansplainer had landed on the New York Times list of New Words of 2010.
Even so, it took until 2012 before mansplaining became a word that was used and understood by the public in the United States, Canada, the UK, and Australia.
On August 1, 2012 GQ writer Marin Cogan used the term in his article, “The Mittsplainer: An Alternate Theory of Mitt Romney’s Gaffes.” The article began thusly:
As a lady who covers politics, I’m intimately familiar with the mansplainer. You know who I’m talking about: he’s the supremely self-impressed dude who feels the need to explain to you — with the overly simplistic, patient tone of an elementary school teacher— really obvious shit you already knew. Like why you need to drink fluids when you have the flu, for example. Or how to avoid getting blisters when you’re breaking in a new pair of flats. Or how to adjust your side view mirrors. I could go on.
In Lily Rothman’s article, “A Cultural History of Mansplaining” appeared in The Atlantic on November 1, 2012. The writer began with warning readers that the word was relatively new, but that the idea proper had been around for much, much longer. The opening paragraph stated:
Not all that long ago, an American statesman of considerable influence wrote an opinion piece for this very publication, about a political issue that directly affects women. It was perhaps the finest example of mansplaining ever published.
In August 2014, Oxford Dictionaries announced that it had added mansplain to its dictionary, and mansplain — with its related variations — officially became a word that could be found in a dictionary.